{1} do you ever see garbage bags on the side of the highway and wonder if there are body parts inside? > ♥ YUP! I'M CURIOUS
{2} if you ever got the chance to practice cannibalism, would you? > ♥ YUP! I WANNA EAT YOU!
{3} if forced to overdose on a drug, which one would you choose? > ♥ OVERDOSED
{WOULD YOU RATHER BE...}
{4} shot or stabbed? > ♥ SHOT
{5} asphixiated or exanguinated? > ♥ ASPHIXIATED
{6} drowned or buried alive? > ♥ DROWNED
{7} killed by blunt-force trauma to the head or crushed to death? > ♥ BLUNT-FORCE TRAUMA
{8} poisoned or overdosed? > ♥ OVERDOSED
{9} killed by a flesh-melting virus or by rats or ants slowly pecking at you? > ♥ BY ANTS
{10} out of all the above choices, which one do you like best? > ♥ NOTHING! I DON'T WANT TO DIE!
{11}...which is the worst way to die in your opinion? > ♥ TO BE BURIED ALIVE
{12} killed (by a person) intentionally, or by accident? > ♥ BY ACCIDENT
{13} killed by a serial killer (for pleasure) or a hitman (for profit)? > ♥ A HITMAN (FOR PROFIT)
{14} killed in a car crash or a plane crash? > ♥ PLANE CRUSH
{15} killed in your home or away from home? > ♥ IN MY HOME
{16} killed in your sleep or while watching TV? > ♥ IN MY SLEEP
{17} killed by someone who knew you, a stalker, or a complete stranger? > ♥ COMPLETE STRANGER
{RANDOM...}
{18} what do you want done with your body when you die? > ♥ MAKE ME VERY BEAUTIFUL. PUT SOME MAKE UP ON MY FACE AND PUT MY BODY IN A GLASS COFFIN WITH SO MANY FLOWERS ON IT
{19} you're forced to have your funeral at a place OTHER than a church - where would you choose? > ♥ NEAR THE SEA OR WATERFALLS
{20} what song/s would you want played at your funeral? > ♥ LULLABY
{21} what outfit would you like to be buried in? > ♥ A FAIRYTALE PRINCESS GOWN WITH SO MANY SWAROVSKI CRYSTALS ON IT, A CROWN ON MY HEAD, AND A PAIR OF DAINTY GLASS SHOES
{22} who do you want to give your eulogy? > ♥ MY DAD OR BRO
{23} any other specifics about your funeral you'd like to share? > ♥ AS OF NOW NOTHING! I WANT TO LIVE! I DON'T WANNA DIE WITHOUT ACHIEVING ALL MY GOALS IN LIFE!
{24} would you rather be forgotten about when you die, or remembered but hated? > ♥ FORGOTTEN!
{25] would you rather die alone, or die loved but leave a heartbroken mate behind? > ♥ DIE ALONE!
1. What is your current mood? > ♥ BORED!
2. Have you ever smoked heroin? > ♥ NOPE!
3. Do you own a gun? > ♥ NOPE, BUT I WISH TO HAVE A SNIPER RIFLE
4. Rehab? > ♥ NOPE!
5. If you're alone in a room with two beds, which one do you sleep on? > ♥ THE ONE THAT IS THE BOUNCIEST WHEN I JUMP ON IT OF COURSE!
6. What do you think of your friends? > ♥ OTHER FRIENDS ARE FAKE AND CAN'T BE TRUSTED
7. What's your favorite Christmas song? > ♥ SILENT NIGHT
8. What do you prefer to drink in the morning? > ♥ A CUP OF COFFEE
9. Do you do push-ups? > ♥ YUP,SOMETIMES
10. Have you ever done ecstacy? > ♥ NO! Never!
11. Are you vegetarian? > ♥ YUP!
12. What was your hardest class in high school? > ♥ ALGEBRA
13. What is your secret weapon to lure in the opposite sex? > ♥ IF I TOLD YOU, IT WOULDNT BE A SECRET-DUH!
14. Do you own a knife? > ♥ YUP! FOR SELF-DEFENSE...
15. Do you have A.D.D.? > ♥ WHATS THAT??? I DON'T KNOW
16. Date Of Birth? > ♥ AUG. 22, 1987
17. Do you have a crazy side? > ♥ YES,SOMETIMES!HEHEHE
18. What is something you do a lot? the Internet? > ♥ BLOGGING!
19. Name five drinks you regularly drink: > ♥ COFFEE,MILK,ICE TEA,MANGO JUICE,WATER
20. What time did you wake up today? > ♥ 8 AM
21. Current hair? > ♥ LONG,BLACK,STRAIGHT HAIR
22. Current worry? > ♥ MIDTERM EXAMS
23. Current hate? > ♥ MY FAKE FRIENDS
24. Favorite place to be? > ♥ PARADISE
25. Least favorite place to be? > ♥ MOUNTAIN,SEA,FOREST,CAVE,WATERFALLS
26. Where would you like to go? > ♥ TO A PEACEFUL PLACE WHERE I CAN BE ALONE AND FREE
27. Does your crush like you back? > ♥ I DON'T KNOW...MAY GF SYA EH...
28. What do you think you'll be in 10 yrs? > ♥ A SOLDIER, A SHARPSHOOTER
29. Do you have a tan? > ♥ NOTHING
30. Last thing you ate? > ♥ SNICKERS
31. Would you be a pirate? > ♥ YES! WHY NOT?
32. Last time you had an alcoholic drink? > ♥ I HATE ALCOHOLIC DRINK
33. What songs do you sing in the shower? > ♥ LALALALALALALALA!
34. What did you fear was going to get you at night when you're a child? > ♥ VAMPIRE
36. Last thing that made you laugh? > ♥ HAHAHA! CAN'T REMEMBER
37. Best bed sheets you had when you're a child? > ♥ PINK HELLO KITTY BED SHEET
38. Worst injury you've ever had? > ♥ LEG INJURY, BIG SCAR ON MY FACE
40. ARE YOU WEIRD? > ♥ MAYBE
41. Favorite planet? > ♥ PLUTO
42. Bright or Dark Room? > ♥ DARK
43. Does someone have a crush on you? > ♥ I DON'T KNOW
44. Do you wish on stars? > ♥ YEAH ALWAYS!
45. What is your favorite book? > ♥ THE LANGUAGE OF RECOVERY AND LIVING A LIFE ONE DAY AT A TIME
46. What is your favorite candy? > ♥ COTTON CANDY
47. What's your biggest secret? > ♥ WHY SHOULD I TELL?! THAT'S SECRET!
48. What song do you want played at your funeral? > ♥ LULLABY
49. What were you doing 12AM last night? > ♥ COMBING MY HAIR 100 TIMES!
50. Ever had a near death experience? > ♥ YES
Is REAL love indescribable? > ♥ YES 
Have you ever been in Love? > ♥ I DON'T THINK SO...
What feelings do you get when you know you love someone? > ♥ I DON'T KNOW...
Ever get sick to your stomach because you love someone so much? > ♥ NO!
Describe in 3-5 words what your description of Love? > ♥ SACRIFICE,DEVOTION,PATIENT,KIND,UNSELFISH
Is love sometimes misunderstood for care? > ♥ I THINK CARING IS ANOTHER FORM OF LOVE
If you could make someone fall in love with you, who would it be? > ♥ MY CRUSH SINCE FIRST YEAR COLLEGE
If Love was a potion what ingredients would it compose of? > ♥ HAHAHA! MAGNETS AND GLUE SO THAT HE'LL STICK WITH ME FOREVER 
Do you tend to enjoy the game of getting someone to love you back? > ♥ YUP!
What age were you when you had your first kiss? > ♥ NEVER BEEN KISS!
Is love worth dying for? > ♥ I DON'T THINK SO!
Is love worth losing everything you currently own? > ♥ NO!
Is love always enough in a relationship? > ♥ NOT ALL IS NEEDED, BUT IT'S A BIG PART... YOU NEED TRUST AND COMPATIBILITY...
What item you own do you Love the most? WHy? > ♥ MY BELLYDANCING CD'S AND COSTUMES BECAUSE BELLYDANCING IS MY PASSION ^_^
Is the love for your pets same as the love for your family? > ♥ YES! I LOVE MY PUPPY. HE'S SO lOVING AND ADORABLE. I READ A QUOTE ONCE THAT SAID THAT A DOG IS THE ONLY ANIMAL THAT WILL LOVE YOU MORE THAN HE LOVES HIMSELF.
A food you LoVe? > ♥ CAKE! VEGGIES,FRUITS!
Someone you love for making life so much easier? > ♥ I'M NOT IN LOVE!
HATE!!!!!!!!!
Would life be better or easier if we were all emotionless? > ♥ MAYBE
Is black the never ending color of hate? > ♥ MAYBE
Someone that makes you sick? > ♥ FAKE FRIENDS
A food you HATE!!? > ♥ EXOTIC FOODS LIKE FROGS AND SNAKES
Do you sometimes hate the ones you love the most? > ♥ NO
The argument you hated having the most!!? > ♥ THE TIME WHEN I KNOW I AM RIGHT AND YET THEY CONTINUE TO CONTRADICT AND FIGHT ME ON IT.
Something about life that you hate? > ♥ I BELONG TO A BROKEN FAMILY! 
A movie you hate? > ♥ JEEPERS CREEPERS
A band you wish would just SHUT UP? > ♥ ALL BANDS! THEY'RE VERY LOUD! IT GIVES ME HEADACHE! 
A vegetable you hate? > ♥ AMPALAYA
Something a family member gives you on the holidays that you hate? > ♥ I DON'T HATE THE GIFTS PEOPLE GIVE TO ME! I APPRECIATE EVERYTHING
A word you despise? > ♥ ALL THOSE NASTY CUSS WORDS 
Soemthing your bf/gf does that drives you crazy? > ♥ NOTHING
Something a family member does, that drives you crazy? > ♥ NOTHING
Special Events in your life!!
The happiest moment of your life? > ♥ WINNING IN THE BEAUTY PAGEANTS AND PERFORMING MY BELLYDANCE 
The funniest thing that happened to you with your friends? > ♥ CAN'T REMEMBER
The nicest thing someone has ever said to you? > ♥ YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL
The best date youve been on? describe it:: > ♥ NOTHING!
Your best/happiest birthday? What happened? > ♥ MAYBE WHEN I WAS A KID COZ MY FAMILY IS STILL COMPLETE
The best gift someone has ever given you? > ♥ THEY'RE PRESENCE IS THE BEST GIFT! 
A time you laughed so hard you peed your pants? what happened? > ♥ THAT NEVER HAPPENED TO ME THANK GOD!
One of the best memories you have with your family? > ♥ BONDING MOMENT WITH MY FATHER AND BROTHER
Best vacation with family::? > ♥ SWIMMING IN ZAMBALES
The Nasty Tards
Do you get migranes? > ♥ I USE TO GET THEM A LOT
Do you get acne? > ♥ SOMETIMES
Ever been pregnant when you didnt want to be? > ♥ NOPE
Have you ever been trapped in an elevator? > ♥ NOPE
Ever accidently caught something on fire in your home? > ♥ NOPE
Has a pet ever ran away? did you find them? > ♥ YUP! I FIND HIM!
Ever watched a loved one die before your eyes? > ♥ NOPE
Ever had a parent walk in on you and your someone doing something naughty? > ♥ NOPE AND I DON'T HAVE SOMEONE!
Your most embarassing moment? > ♥ SOMETHING BACK IN HIGHSCHOOL, I WOULD RATHER NOT TALK ABOUT...
Have you ever fell down the stairs? > ♥ YEAH! WHEN I WAS IN HIGHSCHOOL
Ran into a see through door? > ♥ CAN'T REMEMBER
Slipped on wet floor? > ♥ YUP! WHEN I WAS TAKING A BATH
Ever found soemthing disgusting in your fast food? > ♥ I THINK A HAIR ONE TIME. IT WAS SO GROSS
Have you ever been diagnosed with something horrible? > ♥ NOPE
Accidently slipped gas in public? > ♥ NOPE
Your Absolute Bests!
Meal youve ever made? > ♥ SINIGANG
Thing you have made for someone? > ♥ I MADE A POEM FOR MY BESTFRIEND
Thing youve done for someone? > ♥ MAKING HER SMILE WHENEVER SHE FEELS SAD,LISTENING AND HELPING HER TO ALL HER PROBLEMS
Action made to help someone? > ♥ GIVING HER AN ADVICE
Advice youve given someone? > ♥ DO NOT GIVE UP!
Advice youve recieved? > ♥ HAVE FAITH IN GOD.
Picture youve drawn? > ♥ MY DREAM HOUSE
Poem youve written? > ♥ MY LIFE IS LIKE A ROLLER COASTER
Essay youve written? > ♥ MY CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
Party you've ever been to? > ♥ TOO MANY TO MENTION
Voicemail message youve had? > ♥ NOTHING
Phone conversation youve had? > ♥ WITH MY BESTFRIEND
Point you've proven? > ♥ I'M NOT A CHEATER
Sport you played? > ♥ BADMINTON
Lets get physical
Your best phsyical feature is:? > ♥ MY HAIR
A creative word to describe the color of your eyes is? > ♥ STARRY
Your hairs description:: > ♥ LONG,BLACK,SHINY,STRAIGHT HAIR
What are you most self concious about on your body? > ♥ MY FACE AND HAIR
What do you like the most about your body? > ♥ ALL! I LOVE MY MYSELF! ^_^
What animal do you look most like? > ♥ I DON'T KNOW!
What have you been made fun of for? > ♥ CAN'T RECALL
Lets get REAL phsyical!
Would you ever consider sleeping with a celebrity? > ♥ NO!
Have you ever cheated or been cheated on? > ♥ BEEN CHEATED ON!
Would you consider a one night stand? > ♥ NO! NEVER!
Are you straight, gay or bisexual? > ♥ STRAIGHT
Are you a virgin? > ♥ YES! 100 % 
If you have had sex, where was the craziest/sillest place youve done it? > ♥ NO I DON'T DO!
If your a virgin where do you want your first time to be? > ♥ I DON'T KNOW! MAYBE IN THE JUNGLE OR CAVE OR UNDER THE SEA! (AFTER MARRIAGE) HAHAHAHA! 
Should sex be all about emotion and passion? > ♥ I CAN'T EXPLAIN COZ I HAVEN'T EXPERIENCE! 
Does the person have to LOve you for you to get in their pants? > ♥ HUH? 
Sex only after marriage? > ♥ FOR ME, YES 
Fantasys/ fetishes/something romantic involving sex you wish for? > ♥ THAT'S ONLY FOR ME TO KNOW.
NOW
Is your hair up?: > ♥ NOPE! I JUST LET IT DOWN ALL THE TIME
Is your phone right beside you?: > ♥ YUP!
Do you have a bf/ gf?: > ♥ NO! I'M SINGLE!
Do you wish you were somewhere else?: > ♥ YUP! IN A PEACEFUL PLACE WHERE I CAN FEEL FREE,HAPPY AND ALONE.
Do you have plans for tonight?: > ♥ NOPE!
Are you wearing makeup?: > ♥ NOPE!
Are you wearing chapstick?: > ♥ NOPE!
Are you cold?: > ♥ A BIT
Are you tired?: > ♥ YEAH VERY TIRED COZ I CLEAN MY ROOM AND LAUNDRY MY CLOTHES
Are you excited?: > ♥ YEAH I'M SO EXCITED! UHHM...SECRET! HAHAHA!
Are you watching t.v.?: > ♥ NOPE! JUST SITTING AND TYPING
Are you wearing pajamas?: > ♥ NOPE! JUST WEARING MY RED NIGHTIES
Who's the last person you IMed?: > ♥ NOTHING!
Who's the last person that called you? > ♥ NOTHING!
PAST
Anything you regret? > ♥ NOTHING
Ever lied?: > ♥ OF COURSE! MANY TIMES! HAHAHA!
Ever stuck gum under a desk?: > ♥ YEAH WHEN I WAS ELEMENTARY
Ever spit at someone? > ♥ NO! NEVER!
Ever kick something living?: > ♥ CAN'T REMEMBER
Ever had your nails done?: > ♥ YUP!
Ever thrown up because you cried so hard?: > ♥ NO!
REVEAL A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF:
LAST WEEK
Had any plans last week?: > ♥ I DON'T HAVE ANY PLANS
Who did you see most last week?: > ♥ MY ENEMY!
Was last week interesting? > ♥ I DON'T THINK SO
TODAY
Have you cussed?: > ♥ NOPE!
Have you yelled at someone? > ♥ NOPE!
Have you gotten mad at someone? > ♥ YAH! REALLY MAD!
Have you cried? > ♥ NOPE! I DON'T WANT TO CRY!
Have you called more than 3 people?: > ♥ NOPE
Have you IMed more than 3 people?: > ♥ NOPE
Have you eaten anything gross? > ♥ NOPE
SPILL YOUR GUTS
Q. First thing you did this morning?: > ♥ EXERCISE
Q. Last thing you ate?: > ♥ NOODLES
Q. What's something you look forward to most in the next 6 weeks? > ♥ I DON'T KNOW
Q. What's annoying you right now? > ♥ MY STALKER
Q. What's the last movie you saw? > ♥ THE GIRL NEXT DOOR
Q. Do you believe in long distance relationships?: > ♥ SHOULD BE HARD TO WORK OUT.. BUT YES, DEFINITELY POSSIBLE!
Q Where is the last place you went?: > ♥ KFC
Q: Who is the last person you called?: > ♥ MY CLASSMATE "CINDY"
Q: Been cheated on?: > ♥ YEAH!
Q: Do you think that someone is thinking about you right now? > ♥ MAYBE, COZ I CAN'T SLEEP...HAHAHA!
Q: Choose one (love, beauty): > ♥ I WILL CHOOSE LOVE BECAUSE BEAUTY CAN FADE BUT TRUE LOVE NEVER FADES
Q: Do you wish on stars?: > ♥ YEAH ALWAYS
Q: Does it work?: > ♥ SOMETIMES ALL MY WISHES COME TRUE
Q: Do you untie your shoes every time you take them of: > ♥ YEAH
Q: When did you last cry? > ♥ CAN'T REMEMBER
Q: Do you like your handwriting? > ♥ YEAH MOSTLY! HAHAHA!
Q: Are you a friendly person? > ♥ NOT REALLY! I CAN'T EASILY TRUST PEOPLE
Q: Are you keeping a secret from the world? > ♥ HAHAHA! OF COURSE!
Q: Who's bed did you sleep in last night? > ♥ MY BED
Q: What color shirt are you wearing? > ♥ I'M NOT WEARING A SHIRT. I'M WEARING MY SLEEP WEAR
Q: Do you have any pets? > ♥ YAH! ONE CUTE PUPPY NAMED "BRONSON"
Q: What is the color of your bedsheets? > ♥ PINK & PURPLE
Q: What were you doing at 9 last night? > ♥ READING
Q: last person you talked to : > ♥ NOTHING
Q: When is the last time you saw your dad? > ♥ I ALWAYS SEE MY DAD
Q: Look to your left: > ♥ WHY? HAHAHAH
Q: Ever cried yourself to sleep? > ♥ NOPE!
Q: Ever cried on your friends shoulder? > ♥ NOPE!
Q: Song that makes you cry? > ♥ NOTHING
Q: Are you a normally happy person? > ♥ SOMETIMES
Q: Is your self-esteem low? > ♥ SOMETIMES
Q: What color are your eyes? > ♥ BLACK
Q: Long or Short Hair : > ♥ LONG HAIR
Q: Current Music? > ♥ NATURE SOUND "ROMANTIC CELTIC SEA"
Dear God, when I am lonely and Perhaps I feel Despair Let not my ailing heart forget That You hear every prayer Remind me that no matter what I do or fail to do There still is hope for me as long As I have faith in You Let not my eyes be blinded by Some folly I commit But help me to regret my wrong And to make up for it Inspire me to put my fears Upon a hidden shelf And in the future never to Be sorry for myself Give me the restful sleep I need Before another dawn And bless me in the morning with The courage to go on.
When I'm alone, I feel a special kind of peace, and warmth. I find the world with it's noise and movement overstimulating. Naturally, I'd prefer to spend the majority of my time in this state. I can think, do, and be as I like. There's no one to please, nothing to interrrupt my thoughts, and I can put away my cheery false front.
I just simply don’t trust anyone. Which in fact makes me feel alone. VERY ALONE. I suppose I haven’t found my niche. Maybe I’m too picky when it comes to friends. I feel like there is NOT a SINGLE person in this world I can be completely comfortable with, or understands me and who will not leave me...
This poem was very inspiring to me. Hope it is for anybody reading this. This poem will mean something to you only if you understand the true meaning of it. It is about two birds, one caged and one free. It shows the differences between them. It talks about how a free bird is confident and a caged bird has fear. This can be applied to one’s own life. A child of two will not do what you want it to do. It will do what it wants to do. This is when one is like a free bird. As we grow older our minds develop into cages that restrict us. Clips are fastened on our wings and feet are tied, we are then helpless. We become nothing but caged birds that do nothing but sing of that time when we were free. If you are a child then you would have heard your parents tell you not to waste time during your childhood. They say time flies too quickly. This will not happen if you don’t let cage yourself. Maybe that was a little too much lecturing, but however old you are don’t let yourself be caged. Be free in your mind. THE CAGED BIRD A free bird leaps on the back of the wind and floats downstream till the current ends and dips his wing in the orange sun’s rays and dares to claim the sky. But a bird that stalks down his narrow cage can seldom see through his bars of rage his wings are clipped and his feet are tied so he opens his throat to sing. The caged bird sings with a fearful trill of things unknown but longed for still and his tune is heard on the distant hill for the caged bird sings of freedom. The free bird thinks of another breeze and the trade winds soft through the sighing trees and the fat worms waiting on a dawn-bright lawn and he names the sky his own. But a caged bird stands on the grave of dreams his shadow shouts on a nightmare scream his wings are clipped and his feet are tied so he opens his throat to sing. The caged bird sings with a fearful trill of things unknown but longed for still and his tune is heard on the distant hill for the caged bird sings of freedom.
(if you are wondering why all the lines don’t start with a capital, it is because the poetess wants it that way. Seems like she has become a free bird. She does it her way. )
BE A FREE BIRD!
I will never give up No matter what the odds are No matter what people say No matter how far I will never give up If I throw it away time after time If I am one step behind try after try If I miss dime after dime I will never give up Even when it seems all over Even when no one else believes Even when it seems I can go no further I will never give up For I know I have strength within For I know I can persevere For I know that I can win I will never give up Because it’s someone else’s fault Because I am settling for good enough Because I fear that I will fall short I will never give up There is so much I can still do There is too much talent to waste There is so much in me that I want you to see I will never give up Why squander all of my hard work and dedication Why not show the world that I am fearless Why quit when I still have the opportunity to go on I will never give up If I do, I will not be the best me that could live If I do, I will never know what I am capable of If I do, I am not giving the world all I can give I will never give up!
| You can try to put me down with everything you got I am made up of many things but i am not a quiter. you can hit me from every angle but I will never break I have been through many battles there is nothing I can't take. you took away so many things but my faith has carried me I am going to win this fight you just wait, watch, and see. everyday is a battle with you from the pain you always give you only make me stronger and give me the will to live. some days you might get the best of me and knock me to the ground you better believe i'm going to get up and go another round. you will never get the best of me and this is a promise to you keep on giving me obstacles my strength will carry me through. |
I wont waste my time WORRYING if people are talking about me- I affect their LIVES, they DONT affect MINE!
because I feel so rejected It hurts so badly and so many people have done it. I make real friends, and right when I need them the most they just leave me. I'm sick of people turning out to be fake! I am sick of being betrayed! I am sick of people not believing me. I am sick of people bringing me down! I am so sick of feeling so...hurt. I am sick of everything! I don't like to trust anymore. I don't need anyone! It's better to be ALONE!
A Fake Friend makes fun of you, talks about you behind your back, those who are with you in your good times only,doesn't listen about what you say, doesn't care about how you feel. A Real Friend sticks with you through good times and the bad, they listen to what you have to say. They would care about your feelings, they will talk to you if you want to talk, doesn't spread rumours, doesn't make fun of you. I remember a saying, which i wud like to share... "WEN U R AT D TOP UR FRIENDS KNW WHO U R, WEN U FALL DOWN U KNW WHO UR FRIENDS ARE"...
I'm not a celebrity, I'm just like you, so don't waste your time breathing under my neck, watching my every move, and worse of all, giving wrong details to other people too. No wonder everybody thinks I am not who I am, because they don't know Who I really am! and thanks to who? You! No one will know the real me for sure, considering the fact that, there are people evaluating me and taking note of the wrongs I do, and then reporting to someone else, and become the hottest discussion. So, how? well... I got to let it go, I know I shouldn't care much bout it, but I'm human k. I must! I have this thing called an EGO, and I'm sure you do too. I know God loves me for who I am, and no matter what people might say bout me, He still loves me.
I have usually found that when people gossip about me it usually makes me look good and the person gossiping about me look bad. Hahaha! ^_^
- If you have been a gossiper, confess this as sin and ask Christ to forgive you. “Repent” by turning in a new direction and surrendering your tongue to Christ, not to gossip or bad-mouth again (1 John 1:9, 1 Cor. 7:10).
- Keep your nose out of other people’s business.
- If you can’t say something good or encouraging about others, then keep your mouth shut (Eph. 4:29).
- Never criticize another person, except to their own face with an intent to help. Criticism can never be “constructive” if expressed to anyone else.
- If your “friends” start bad-mouthing others to you, stop them in their tracks -- refuse to be a partaker of their sins (1 Tim 5:22).
- Avoid association with persons who gossip (Prov. 20:19).
- Expose works of darkness by reporting gossip to the pastor that he may confront and offer correction. Gossip should be treated as any other vile sin (Eph. 5:11).
“I will watch my ways and keep my tongue from sin; I will put a muzzle on my mouth as long as the wicked are in my presence” (Psalms 39:1).
- Gossip is as sinful as murder and will suffer the same consequences unless there is repentance (Rom. 1:32).
- God holds you accountable to your words (Matt. 12:36-37).
- The person who gossips to you about others, also gossips to others about you.
- Gossip & slander disqualifies persons for spiritual leadership (1 Tim. 3:11, Jas. 3:2).
- Gossip often masks as pretentious concerns for others.
- Gossip often thrives upon secrecy. Where secrecy is removed, gossip is hampered.
- Gossip always contributes to a problem and never to a solution.
- Gossip always distorts and exaggerates, and is never a reliable source of truth.
- Those who gossip & slander are not in right fellowship with God (Rom. 1:28-32).
- Those who gossip rarely get answers to prayer, and often face persistent, unexplainable problems (Psalms 66:18, Prov. 21:23, Prov. 6:12-15).
Gossip is one of the most dangerous sins because it is so subtle and ambiguous -- many are unable to recognize it. Be on alert against gossip whenever you hear of “secret information” being circulated, or if you hear anyone else’s name is used in a conversation. Gossip exists whenever persons “talk about others” in less than a favorable way. The root of gossip is negativeness, judgementalism, slander, etc. Avoid associating with people who gossip “A gossip betrays a confidence; so avoid a man who talks too much” (Prov. 20:19). You probably remember the old saying: “If you can’t say something good about others, don’t say anything at all.” Wise advice if you wish to avoid sin. Gossip often masquerades as “concern” for others. Rumors or gossip will seem more palatable if they first hide behind a pretentious expression of concern. “I hate to say anything about this to you, but I’m ’concerned’ about so and so.” At other times the gossiper will seek you out as their “confidante” to unload their “heavy heart” about their concerns. “I’m very troubled about so and so and I don’t know who else to talk to about it.” In reality, the gossip is not sincerely concerned about solving the problem, only in talking about it -- stirring it up. “A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends” (Prov. 16:28). A gossip thrives on the negative, the controversial, and the sensational. Any person who is genuinely concerned about solving a problem, will go and privately confront the person at the source and express their concern. Or else they should go privately to the pastor so he will do it. The gossip is like a spider looking for a prey to lure into their trap of gossiping. They may confide to you secrets or their private concerns about other people. Perhaps in consolement, you may express your half-hearted agreement with their concerns, or you may even be enticed to confide your secret concerns to them. Consequently, the gossip will eventually repeat the process with someone else -- but next time, they will add your name as an endorsement of their private “issue,” and will eventually even disclose the secrets you shared to them. And on and on it goes. There are times when people need to confide their own problems with a friend in the Lord. But avoid revealing anything to a person who gossips -- they can’t be trusted. “A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy man keeps a secret” (Prov. 11:13).
1.Big minds talk about the goodness of life while small minds talk about other people. 2.They wouldn't even bother talking about you if u weren't worth anything.
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